"The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are."

C.G. Jung

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ABOUT ME

I am a Jungian-oriented psychotherapist working with individuals and couples using psychodynamic, emotion focused, and internal family systems therapy techniques practicing in Fort Collins, Colorado.  I am also a faculty member at Colorado State University, where I research and teach in areas focused on supporting mental health providers, promoting mental health, and increasing access to care.

After 15 years of studying psychology and spending more than a decade researching and teaching about what works to support mental health and wellbeing, and how to help therapists be better therapists, I decided to pursue practice as a therapist myself.  I took the leap after my own experiences in therapy, because after achieving so much of what I thought I wanted in life--  my dream career, living in my ideal location, building a beautiful life with a loving partner, great friends and lots of self care-- I realized I still felt unfulfilled.  I had everything I thought I wanted in life, and was still unhappy.  It was then I realized that none of those things I had attained could fill the void I was feeling inside.  I couldn't run away from myself any longer.  I couldn't "know" or make sense of my life, I had to actually feel it, experience it, and live it.  I also couldn't ignore my calling to do deep healing and to help others heal.  

And so I had to do the work--  to face the unconscious that had driven my life for so long instead of looking for surface level solutions to "fix" my problems, to explore the impact of trauma not only on my mind and body but on my soul, to connect with my psycho-spiritual life.  I spent years  exploring the power of dreams, mythology, astrology, and spirituality. I learned to sit alone with my self.  A whole new world opened up to me as I dove into the underworld of my psyche and shed the layers that weren't me but were what society, culture, and family had told me I should be.  I discovered myself and am still discovering myself...who I am beneath all these layers of protection built in my own lifetime and that of the generations of trauma passed down to me. 

This all was only possible for me in the context of my own personal therapy.  Although this work must be undertaken by oneself, having a therapist by your side to witness it all, until you can witness it for yourself is crucial for healing.  I also found it essential to have a therapist who believed that trauma happens in real relationships, so healing can only happen in the context of real relationships too.  It was then that I realized I could no longer continue my work as a psychologist without being a therapist myself. 

My specific experiences and training in the inner landscape of the mind, dream analysis, spirituality and the relational context of healing are what guide my practice.  I still enjoy studying, researching, and teaching at the university, yet my greatest fulfillment comes from working directly with others in therapy, developing healing relationships with others, and holding space for them to become who they truly are meant to be.  I feel deep gratitude for having the privilege to help others awaken their own inner wisdom to guide their healing. 

If you're feeling called to explore your own depths to find healing, feel free to call, email, or text me to learn more about my approach. 

LICENSE

  • Marriage & Family Therapist Candidate, Colorado License: MFTC.0013968

  • Registered Psychotherapist, Colorado License: NLC.0108163

EDUCATION

  • Postdoctoral Fellowship, University of South Carolina

  • Ph.D., Developmental Psychology, The University of Notre Dame

  • M.A., Developmental Psychology, The University of Notre Dame

  • B.S., Psychology, Stetson University

CERTIFICATIONS

  • Internal Family Systems Therapist, Certification In Progress

  • PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) Therapist, Certified

  • Gottman Method Couple Therapist Certified

  • American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Pre-Clinical Fellow 

PROFESSIONAL APPOINTMENTS

  • 2017-present, Associate Director, Colorado State University Prevention Research Center

  • 2015-present, Research Scientist, Department of Human Development & Family Studies, Colorado State University

  • 2013-2015, Director of Undergraduate Program, Psychology Department, University of South Carolina

  • 2010-2015, Post-doctoral Fellow,  Psychology Department, University of South Carolina   

(970) 658-0661

405 E. Prospect Rd., Fort Collins, CO 80525

©2019 by Melissa George, Ph.D.